Spiritually Homesteading | How to Lose Your Religion & Keep Your Jesus
Most faith podcasts will tell you what to believe. This one helps you figure out how to build.
Spiritually Homesteading exists for the spiritually curious, the quietly disillusioned, and the stubbornly hopeful. The people who got honest about their faith and ended up with more questions than answers. The ones who left the church, or stayed and felt alone in it. The ones who still feel something pulling them toward God but don't know what to do with that feeling anymore.
This podcast is not about de-converting. This is about what comes next: the slower, harder, more rewarding work of rebuilding a faith that actually belongs to you. Not inherited. Not performed. Not borrowed from someone else's certainty and rules.
Think of it like tending a homestead. Nothing grows overnight. Nothing grows without effort. But when you put your own hands in the soil and tend something with intention, it becomes yours in a way that nobody can take from you.
That's what we're building here. Episode by episode. Together.
If you've been hurt by the church but haven't lost your hunger for truth...Welcome home.
Most faith podcasts will tell you what to believe. This one helps you figure out how to build.
Spiritually Homesteading exists for the spiritually curious, the quietly disillusioned, and the stubbornly hopeful. The people who got honest about their faith and ended up with more questions than answers. The ones who left the church, or stayed and felt alone in it. The ones who still feel something pulling them toward God but don't know what to do with that feeling anymore.
This podcast is not about de-converting. This is about what comes next: the slower, harder, more rewarding work of rebuilding a faith that actually belongs to you. Not inherited. Not performed. Not borrowed from someone else's certainty and rules.
Think of it like tending a homestead. Nothing grows overnight. Nothing grows without effort. But when you put your own hands in the soil and tend something with intention, it becomes yours in a way that nobody can take from you.
That's what we're building here. Episode by episode. Together.
If you've been hurt by the church but haven't lost your hunger for truth...Welcome home.
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Episodes

May 24, 2026
May 24, 2026
7 min
Your Story With God Deserves to Be Written Down... so let's record it and make it count.
We often forget that God exists outside the Bible and inside your life. LET's talk about that.
May 24, 2026
7 min

May 17, 2026
May 17, 2026
6 min
After a decade of a deconstruction, I finally rebuilt my faith and this is what I did to do it. The best part is... my faith is more secure than it was before. I want to do the same for you.
May 17, 2026
6 min

May 10, 2026
May 10, 2026
6 min
There maybe a season in your journey where you aren't sure if you can trust the Bible anymore...or if you should ever read it again. I have been in this place and it is both frustrating and scary. Frustrating because everyone keeps pushing the Bible on you. Scary, because what do you do to "connect with God?" without a Bible. Let's talk about that.
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May 10, 2026
6 min

May 3, 2026
May 3, 2026
12 min
I've been there. You look at the ashes of your former spiritual practices and wonder when it is time to move on? You wonder if it is even worth the journey? Beauty waits on the other side. Let's talk about that.
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May 3, 2026
12 min

Apr 26, 2026
Apr 26, 2026
7 min
Biblical is a word that a lot of believers like to use to persuade and confirm their message or beliefs. But what if they are missing a significant piece of that formula?
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Apr 26, 2026
7 min

Apr 19, 2026
Apr 19, 2026
10 min
A lot of times Biblical and spiritual abuse is masked as "biblical authority," let's unpack the implications on why ignoring the Bible (even if you hate reading the Bible) is not in your best interest.
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Apr 19, 2026
10 min

Apr 12, 2026
Apr 12, 2026
10 min
There are a lot of different types of people who have a lot of different opinions about the Bible. And based on where you are in your journey, whether you are deconstructing or reconstructing or just looking to grow your faith, it can get complicated really quickly. Especially since every source may or may not be wanting to help you the way you were hoping they would.
Like applying a theory framework that helps with literature, here are a few ways you can look at the Bible and Bible guides.
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Apr 12, 2026
10 min

Apr 5, 2026
Apr 5, 2026
9 min
Let's address the elephant in the room: Christians have a reputation for hypocrisy. The accusation isn't new, and honestly, it's often deserved. But before we pile on religious folks exclusively, we need to recognize something crucial: hypocrisy isn't strictly a Christian thing. It's a human thing.
So why does Christian hypocrisy feel so pervasive? Here are four reasons that go deeper than "they're just bad people."
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Apr 5, 2026
9 min

Mar 29, 2026
Mar 29, 2026
7 min
Throughout history, merging church and state has consistently led to oppression, violence, and the corruption of both institutions. But there's a practical question that exposes the fundamental problem: Which version of Christianity would become official? Which Bible—Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox? Which denomination sets the doctrine?
The moment you try to establish Christianity as a state religion, you're forced to choose one interpretation over thousands of others, effectively making the government an arbiter of theology. History shows this always ends in persecution—of other Christians, of other faiths, and of dissenters. Ironically, separation of church and state doesn't weaken faith; it protects it from being weaponized, diluted, and controlled by political power.
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Mar 29, 2026
7 min

Mar 22, 2026
Mar 22, 2026
6 min
Can you deconstruct your faith without losing Jesus? Absolutely. In this episode, Laura Farhy shares a practical four step framework for examining everything you've been taught about Christianity while keeping what truly matters. Learn how to identify what's really keeping you from God, define who Jesus actually is beyond religious tradition, and get curious about your beliefs without fear. Perfect for anyone healing from church hurt, questioning their faith, or seeking authentic spirituality.
Read the companion blog post with journaling exercises at laurafarhy.com. You can lose your religion and keep your Jesus.
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Mar 22, 2026
6 min

